Safety Policy

Last updated: August 2026 · Draft — pending legal review

Identity verification

Every member must pass identity verification before their profile is visible to others. This confirms both age and identity, and is one layer of protection — it does not replace your own judgment when meeting someone new.

Never send money before meeting

A common scam pattern on platforms like this involves someone asking for money, gift cards, wire transfers, or financial details before you've met in person. We automatically flag messages that match these patterns for review. If someone asks you for money before you've met face to face, treat it as a serious warning sign and consider reporting the account.

Meeting in person

  • Meet in a public place for your first few meetings
  • Tell a friend or family member where you're going and who you're meeting
  • Arrange your own transportation to and from the meeting
  • Video chat before meeting in person, if possible, to confirm the person matches their profile

Reporting and blocking

You can report or block any member directly from their profile or a conversation. Reports involving suspected underage users are treated as priority and can result in immediate suspension pending review. All reports are reviewed by our trust & safety team.

Private photos

Members can keep certain photos private and only grant access to specific people they choose. Never feel pressured to share private photos with someone you haven't met, and you can revoke access at any time.